You don’t have to fix yourself first to deserve your own kindness.
So many high-achieving women I work with don’t hate themselves…but they don’t really like themselves, either. They tolerate themselves. They manage themselves. They critique themselves. And often, they live in a quiet, ongoing relationship with judgment.
Self-judgment doesn’t always scream. Sometimes it sounds reasonable. Motivating even. It can sound like: “Why am I like this?” “I should be further along by now.” “I know better than this.”
But underneath that voice is often a tired, overwhelmed part of us that simply wants understanding.
In this episode, I share where that inner critic comes from, how it once tried to protect us, and why being harder on ourselves rarely creates real change.
What You’ll Learn
- Why self-judgment is often something we learned, not something we chose
- How your inner critic may have originally developed as a survival strategy
- Why constant self-correction keeps your nervous system from ever fully resting
- The subtle ways self-judgment disguises itself as “motivation”
- What loving yourself actually looks like in everyday life
- How to begin meeting yourself with gentleness instead of punishment
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