When we think about forgiveness, we usually think about other people. But some of the deepest resentment we carry is self-directed, and it often hides as guilt, self-criticism, exhaustion, regret, or a constant feeling that something just isn’t quite right.
In this episode, I walk through the 10 most common things we struggle to forgive ourselves for, especially as women in midlife: how we showed up (or didn’t), staying too long or leaving too soon, health and caregiving decisions, repeating old patterns, choosing others over ourselves, and grieving the life we thought we’d have by now.
This isn’t about “doing forgiveness right,” rushing to closure, or forcing compassion before you’re ready. It’s about telling the truth kindly, creating safety in your nervous system, and understanding that forgiveness comes after witnessing—not before.
What You’ll Learn
- Why self-forgiveness is often harder than forgiving others
- What forgiveness is and isn’t, and why timing matters more than effort
- How the nervous system holds onto unresolved experiences
- Why repeating patterns doesn’t mean you’ve failed or regressed
- How survival, loyalty, and responsibility shape our past choices
- Why grief and gratitude can coexist
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